‘She demanded I send an apology email to the whole team. I told her I would not lie just to make her look better’: Employee refuses to apologize to boss after exposing her for taking credit mid-meeting, and the boss responds with silent treatment

This lucky worker won the privilege of working under a manager who has a knack for collecting gold stars from someone else's work, cruising through meetings like a hall monitor with a trophy shelf to fill. How rare! 

Two months of actual effort turn into a group PowerPoint moment, except the boss swoops in, eager to narrate the story as if guiding the process from her vacation hammock. The best part isn't the interruption, the best part is that split second after, when the truth lands and the whole room suddenly learns the difference between awkward and radio silent.

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  • AITJ for refusing to apologize to my manager after I embarrassed her in a meeting?

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  • Post-meeting, the show moves backstage. Cornered for a chat, manager declares the whole performance a personal attack and demands a scripted apology for an audience that already got the real version. There’s a special place in office politics for the silent treatment: extra assignments start stacking up, projects multiply, and the boss keeps score in ways only a champion grudge-holder understands.

  • I work in an office where my manager loves taking credit for other people's work. Last week I presented a project update that I spent two months preparing.
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  • During the meeting she interrupted and said that she guided me through every part of it.
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  • I was frustrated so I said that I appreciated her support but I handled the entire project alone because she was on vacation for most of it.
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  • The room went quiet. After the meeting she pulled me aside and said I humiliated her in front of our director.
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  • She demanded I send an apology email to the whole team saying she supervised the project.
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  • I told her I would not lie just to make her look better. Now she has been giving me silent treatment and assigning me extra tasks.
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  • My coworkers said I should have just stayed quiet because managers hold grudges. But I am tired of being used for her image AITJ?
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  • And as usual, coworkers channel their inner fortune cookie, advise blending in, keeping quiet, and letting managers pad their stats without interference. Signed, sealed, delivered: keep the peace and maybe earn an extra coffee break. Still, it’s tough giving away all the credit when all you get in exchange is a starring role as the team scapegoat. Working your heart out and watching someone else put their name on it feels less like professional growth and more like unpaid PR work.

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  • Imaginary-Sea-482 NTJ. You simply told the truth. If she cannot handle accountability that is on her. You should start documenting everything because she sounds like the type to retaliate later.
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  • Dana Marie75038 HR. She's making work a hostile environment.
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  • Accomplished-Tea1236 NTJ, document it and report her to HR. Also send her an email confirming what she said to you verbally, and send it to the director. She's bullying you into making her look good.
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  • SaucyPuffin ngl i'd start subtly documenting everything she takes credit for just in case this blows up later
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  • Particular_Cycle9667 I think it's time to go to HR or her boss or manager and tell them that you are tired of her stealing credit for things that you did and are doing and that it is not right for her to get credit for something that is not hers at all or that she had nothing to do with.
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  • scarletorchidstrike i get why ur frustrated. standing up for ur work is fair, even if it made the meeting awkward. seems like she's the one with the problem, not u
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  • NTJ! Ruebee90
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  • Realistic-Lake5897 Does she have any control over you, such as your schedule or what you work on? Can she get you fired? If so, you should watch what you say in front of others. Did announcing you did the work on your own get you any credit with anyone? Did it get you a raise? Attention? Praise? This manager sounds like a piece of shit, but I don't think you helped yourself at all.
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  • Dry-Discussion-9573 NTJ but you could have soothed your manager's ego. The higher ups likely see through her anyway.
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